When he’s just not that into you

Whether you’ve seen the movie or not, I think almost everyone has experienced that situation where the person you are interested in, isn’t so interested in you.

For me, that’s happened a lot here lately.  Let me clarify, every guy that I’ve had interest in, just doesn’t seem to have interest in me, or rather not the same life interests I have.  However, there is one main thing I have learned in this season of singleness that I want to stress to every single female (or male if you’re reading this too) out there:

If a guy is not reaching out, making an effort, and/or pursuing you, then he’s just not that interested in you.

Period. Point blank. Now before you start gathering different debating points and giving me ‘What if situations‘,  (I.E.  “Well what if the guy has kids and is really busy?” or “What if he has been traveling for work and has been swamped with meetings?”)  Let me explain why.

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How to get a Valentine!

What do you get when you have a full time employee and part time student that has been out of town?  Someone who uploaded their Valentine’s Day Video later than expected. 🙂

Whether you spend your Valentine’s Day with a loved one, best friend, or slice of pizza, I hope it’s a great day!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

My Hot Valentine’s Date Last Year

 

Behind the Scenes of “My Hot Valentine’s Date”:

  • I love making little Snapchat “movies” and would come up with the most random (and I think pretty creative ;)) ideas of what they should be about.
  • The idea for the entire story just came to me randomly one day.  We all know Pizza is bae, and I wanted to make fun of how my first single Valentine’s Day was going to go.  🙂
  • One of my best friends, Stephanie, filmed this video for me.
  • I made the story on a Saturday night in, had no makeup on, and no idea I’d be sharing this video with the world. 
  • This was back when I had short, dark hair at the beginning of 2017. My hair has grown a lot and is now blonder since then.
  • By the time we got to the part of pizza, it was cold… 😦   No worries, the oven came through so I could enjoy the rest later.
  • I honestly thought this Snapchat story was so cheesy (pun intended).  OriginallyI only posted it to my Snapchat account.  I was so surprised when I started getting feedback of how people loved it and thought it was so funny.  I then decided to upload it to my Instagram and Facebook account.  Hey, if it made someone smile, or even laugh, even if it was AT me, then that made me feel so good. 

 

I wasn’t planning on making another Valentine’s Day video this year, because honestly I had no creative ideas of what to make it about….until recently!! I am currently working on another video and I’m so excited to share it! Spoiler alert: there will be other people in it helping me out this year!! Stay tuned!

A date that ended horribly wrong that I wish I could delete

Things have been a little serious lately around here with my stories, so let me lighten the mood a little and tell you a dating story. It may make you laugh….shake your head in disbelief…or make you think I’m a horrible person…(I did tell you guys earlier I was far from perfect…this is a judge free zone here, right?)

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My New Year’s Eve Disappointment

I had such high expectations for my New Year’s Eve last year.  My friends and I went to a big masquerade party complete with food, a live band, dancing, and all of your typical annoying party horns and new years props.  It was a formal party that we got to dress up for. I was so excited! My first single New Year’s eve! The possibilities were endless.  I had the typical New Years fantasy that every single girl has at one time or another.  Go to this party, meet a special someone, and at the stroke of midnight, have a new years kiss that rocked my world! Anyone else? Just me who has this fantasy?Jan

We get to the party and start to eat and dance.  To my extreme disappointment, I’m pretty sure there were only 4 single people there that night at the party.  Me and my two friends and this other guy we met, who for the life of me, I can’t remember his name.  Everyone there was coupled up, not to mention it seemed to be an older crowd.  Adding on to that extreme disappointment, the only kiss I had at midnight, was the kiss goodbye to my fantasy that completely did not happen.  The night winds down, party is ending and we are leaving.  On the way out we met a girl who was waiting on her boyfriend to come out of the bathroom.  When he came out, they annoyingly started being the cutest couple ever, all in love and what not. I say annoyingly because I was hating, mad hard, and for the first time the realization of being single set in.

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