I’ll never forget when I ended a relationship 3 years ago and the variety of mixed reactions I received. Specifically, I’ll never forget a comment one of my co-workers said when I told them about the news of my breakup. They replied with something along the lines of, “Man, it’s going to be hard to find a good guy out there. I’d hate to be dating in today’s day and age.” Geez. Really Betty Jo? That’s what you chose to say in that moment? I look back at it now and just laugh. But, if you’re single, maybe you can relate and have experienced the many things that people have said to you without thinking. Shoot, you may not even be single but can relate to the many things people say to you without thinking.
Whether you have seen the movie or not, I think almost everyone has experienced that situation where the person you are interested in, is not so interested in you.
For me, that has happened a lot here lately. Let me clarify, every guy that I have had interest in, just does not seem to have interest in me, or rather not the same interests I have. However, there is one main thing I have learned in this season of singleness that I want to stress to every single female (or male if you are reading this too) out there:
If a guy is not reaching out, making an effort, and/or pursuing you, then he is just not that interested in you.
Period. Point blank. Now before you start gathering different debating points and giving me ‘What if situations‘, (I.E. “Well what if the guy has kids and is really busy?” or “What if he has been traveling for work and has been swamped with meetings?”) Let me explain why.
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What do you get when you have a full time employee and part time student that has been out of town? Someone who uploaded their Valentine’s Day Video later than expected. 🙂
Whether you spend your Valentine’s Day with a loved one, best friend, or slice of pizza, I hope it’s a great day!