Oh hey y’all! It’s me, Cassie! You know the girl who has been MIA from this blog for the past 5 months. Either way, I am back! But not only am I back, I am writing this post from my hotel room all the way in Switzerland!! Far from home, across the world, and I happened to look back at my blog today and read my last post (not the outfits, the expectations post) and inspired myself to write a post. Honestly, since I got here in Switzerland, I have had a lot on my mind and a blog post has been brewing in my head. A post about what I have been going through, where I am at in life currently, and just what I have learned. Because let me tell y’all, a lot has changed since May. A lot has changed in my life in general since the beginning of the year. At the beginning of the year I felt the Lord telling me how 2018 was going to be a Challenging year. Maybe challenging is not the best word to describe it. More like a year that I was really going to have to lean on the Lord and trust Him in some of life’s challenging moments. On October 7th, 2018 I can confirm that has been pretty darn accurate. I plan on sharing these things and my struggles, because once again if sharing my life can help or encourage just one person, then this blog is all worth it. Mission accomplished.
Show of hands: who has ever been disappointed by an expectation you had, that did not go the way you imagined? If your hand isn’t raised right now, then you are either in a public place, or thought that I wasn’t really serious about raising your hand. At one point or another, I’m sure everyone has had a moment in their life where they’ve thought to themself, “I didn’t see my life going this way.” Or maybe something a long the lines of, “I thought I would’ve completed this by now, I thought I would’ve been farther along than that by now”. Have you ever thought that maybe that expectation you had was actually a fantasy or an unrealistic thought you set yourself up for?
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Whether you have seen the movie or not, I think almost everyone has experienced that situation where the person you are interested in, is not so interested in you.
For me, that has happened a lot here lately. Let me clarify, every guy that I have had interest in, just does not seem to have interest in me, or rather not the same interests I have. However, there is one main thing I have learned in this season of singleness that I want to stress to every single female (or male if you are reading this too) out there:
If a guy is not reaching out, making an effort, and/or pursuing you, then he is just not that interested in you.
Period. Point blank. Now before you start gathering different debating points and giving me ‘What if situations‘, (I.E. “Well what if the guy has kids and is really busy?” or “What if he has been traveling for work and has been swamped with meetings?”) Let me explain why.